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If you fear rejection—in your telephone conversations, or when you ask a prospect to engage your services—you’ll definitely want to spend just 24 minutes viewing the following Video Lecture by Chinese-American entrepreneur Jia Jang at the World Domination Summit.
Jang talks about the fear of rejection that almost caused him to give up his dream of creating his own company. He mentions going online to a site where he learned about “Rejection Therapy”.
When I saw this, I was intrigued. I had given countless workshops wherein I challenged participants to purposely ask for things that they were previously sure would be denied to them, but I had not yet heard of “Rejection Therapy”.
After one of my Manhattan workshops, two of the attendees who had flown in from the Midwest went to a bar together and asked the bartender for free drinks, expecting a “no” response. They told the bartender that this was their first time in New York and that they wanted to make sure the drinks were good.
To their surprise, the bartender gave them the drinks they requested, making it clear that he would allow them just one each.
When they excitedly shared their adventure with our group the next day, the point was clear:
Ask. You may just get what you ask for.
I wondered if there really was a website about “Rejection Therapy” and if it was anything like what I was already doing in my workshops.
YOU MUST BE REJECTED BY ANOTHER PERSON AT LEAST ONCE, EVERY SINGLE DAY.
“Please notice the wording of the rule,” Jason tells us. “It doesn’t say you must attempt or try to be rejected. The rule is you MUST be rejected by another human being. In this game, rejection is success. No other outcome will meet the requirement of Rejection Therapy.”
If you want to play the game, visit his site, and read about what counts as a rejection attempt and a successful rejection. Jason freely shares his game and offers a game card you can use (not required) for just $10.
In his talk, Jang tells us that in “playing” Rejection Therapy, he asked a police officer if he could drive the police car and a pilot if he could fly his small plane. To his surprise, both let him do it—just because he asked. In fact, in my workshops, many of the outlandish requests made by my attendees are granted. Some have told me they found it difficult to actually be rejected.
If you often don’t ask for appointments or referrals, or a sale, because you’re afraid of being rejected, spend 100 days playing Rejection Therapy. You’ll learn the lesson that Jang did: that it’s OK if someone says “NO”. It’s just his or her reflex, capacity, or opinion—nothing more.
Contact me today for help, and if I have availability, give me an opportunity to surprise you with a “YES”. Either way, keep REACHING…